These are the moments men live and then search for on their own, late, with the phone tilted away. Each page names what happens in the moment, the story running underneath it, and the way back.
They are grouped by the state a man goes into when he is triggered. If you do not know yours yet, the assessment takes about three minutes and the read you get is personal to you.
He goes quiet and heavy, pulls in, and a wall goes up.
He loses his own shape: reads the room, agrees, adjusts, fixes.
He rises above the moment: analytical, dismissive, grading everyone.
He heats up fast: the voice rises, the words sharpen.
Reading the moments is one thing. Seeing which state you go into is another. The assessment takes about three minutes.